Ranjani ArulWriter & Counselling Psychologist

Relationship & Couples Counselling · online

Relationship & Couples Counselling Online

When love feels like hard work, you don't have to figure it out alone. I take the side of your relationship, not of either partner.

4.6★rating from clients worldwide
850+hours of sessions
250+clients across the globe
Ranjani Arul, counselling psychologist, in a pink blazer and glasses
Ranjani ArulWriter & Counselling Psychologist

Is this for you?

You might be looking for relationship & couples counselling if…

  • The same fight keeps coming back
  • You feel lonely next to each other
  • Trust has been broken by an affair, lies or hidden money
  • In-laws or family are caught in the middle
  • Intimacy and affection have faded
  • You're planning to marry and want a strong start
  • You're in a long-distance or intercultural relationship
  • You're unsure whether to stay together

What we work on

How relationship & couples counselling helps

Communication

Soft starts, real listening and repair: the skills that turn arguments into conversations.

Trust and infidelity

A structured path through the hurt, with clear roles for both partners.

Marital and family pressures

Boundaries with in-laws, roles at home, money, children and life transitions.

Premarital counselling

Ten honest conversations before the wedding, for arranged and love marriages alike.

Same-sex and queer couples

Affirming support for LGBTQIA+ relationships and the pressures they face.

Approaches

CBT, DBT, REBT, mindfulness, relationship and family therapy, art and music-based methods.

How sessions work

What to expect

Every couple journey begins with the Couple Starter. First I meet each partner privately for 60 minutes, so each of you can speak freely. Then we meet together for a 90-minute joint session to map the pattern you're stuck in and agree on goals. After that, joint sessions are 90 minutes. Most couples benefit from a plan of 12 to 16 sessions, with small practices between sessions. Partners can join from the same room or from different cities or countries.

Pricing

Relationship & Couples Counselling sessions

All sessions are online by video. Prices in Indian rupees; international clients see US dollar prices in the booking app.

See all sessions and packages.

FAQ

Questions about relationship & couples counselling

Why do you see each partner separately first?

Private sessions let each person share their story, worries and history without holding back. It helps me understand both sides fairly before we work together.

Will you tell us whether to stay together or separate?

No. That decision belongs to you. My role is to help you understand what's happening and decide with clarity. If you choose to separate, counselling can help you do it with less harm.

What if my partner won't come?

You can start with individual sessions. Changes in how one partner responds often shift the whole relationship, and many partners join later.

Is couples counselling suitable if there is abuse?

When there is violence or fear, safety comes first and joint sessions may not be appropriate. Individual support and a safety plan are the priority.